Talking with your teen
Before any setting, a way to talk.
Keep it simple, one step at a time.
Start by asking
Try “What have you been watching lately?” — curious, not critical. There’s no rush for an answer.
Explain why before you start
Supervision only starts when your teen approves. Going through this site together — what you can and can’t see — makes it easier.
Decide time together
Limits and rest time built around bedtime and meals tend to stick.
Promise they can tell you
Let them know they won’t be in trouble for telling you something went wrong.
Teach block and report
It’s okay to block someone who makes them uncomfortable. That isn’t rude.
Conversation starters
“Seen anything funny lately?” “What would you do if a stranger messaged you?” “How much time feels right to you?” Ask without judging the answer.
Review what you agreed
Revisit limits and rest time when the school year or routines change. You can change supervision settings any time, and your teen’s screen always shows the current rules.
Set the example
When the whole family follows the rules — phones down at meals, adults too — teens listen more.
